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Are you Ready?

​Welcome to Mistress Mia Payne's Purpose-Driven BDSM Practice.

I am a: Disciplinarian. Coach. Rite of Passage Facilitator. Guide. Teacher.

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​So. Here you are....

You've been considering, toying with the idea, maybe even chatting up a few Mistresses...
And somehow, you have found your way to my site. 

​Your curiosity has gotten the better of you, which really denotes a lack of self control...perhaps that's why you're here?

The Question is...
Are you brave enough? Are you open-minded enough to see the opportunity being presented to you, and do you have the courage to speak your needs and enter the submissive space you crave? Are you ready to work on the things about yourself that are holding you back from being your most courageous, healthy, powerful, authentic self?

 

If you struggle with anxiety, bad habits, or unresolved trauma, and want to build self awareness and self confidence, or perhaps you want to reconnect with your primal self, and want to experience the emotional, mental and physical challenges of a Rite of Passage specifically designed for you...maybe you're a dopamine/adrenaline "junkie" and just need a novel experience....

Well then, you've found the right place. 

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Welcome.

You can reach out to me on Fetlife at: MistressMiaPayne, or use the "contact us" feature in the bottom right corner. When you reach out, include the following:

1) Your interests/needs

2) Your kink experience

3) Confirm that you know this is not and never will be an activity that involves anything sexual

4) Give me 3 date/time options for an in-person or Zoom Vetting.

 

I usually try to respond within 24 hours.
I look forward to working with you!

Mistress Mia

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What my Clients have to say:

What my Submissives would like you to know:

Z.

Mistress Mia is everything one would expect from a modern dominatrix: understanding, relaxed, sessions not rushed, strict but a necessary beating delivered with a subtle mix of humour and professional precision. Skilled in schoolboy, maid, nephew, prisoner dynamics; a well equipped training room for both the beginner and seasoned submissive. I miss her sorely, due to relocation.

D.

I am one of Mistress Mia's newer submissives and I really wish to share how greatly she has affected my life in a quick and meaningful way.
I have struggled from deep depression and high anxiety my whole life, and on top of that I work in a very stressful career field. Over the years I have tried a variety of things, including medication, to help with my problems but have had very little success in doing so.
I reached out to Mistress Mia and she took me in with open arms. After just only my first session my mental health and well being immediately felt 10x better then any of my previous attempts, including the medications.
Mistress Mia is such a kind, intelligent, and genuinely caring person, and I am so grateful to have found her.  Even if you are new to the scene and lifestyle it does not matter because she provides a safe and open environment to talk, learn, and experience true help.
To anyone who is dealing with a similar or even worse situation as mine I strongly encourage that you reach out to Mistress Mia and get the help you deserve. I am indebted to my Mistress for all of the positivity she has brought into my life so far and with more to come.  I am so grateful that I intend on remaining as one of her submissives for a lifetime, or for as long as she will have me.
Sincerely,
Mistress Mia's newest Good boy 

Mistress Mia is foremost a lady that knows what she wants from a man. He will learn quickly how best to respect her and submit to her whims. Punishment undoubtedly will be delivered, in a slow methodical manner, brooking no nonsense. But to keep you on your toes, do not expect repetition each visit, because this mistress has a large arsenal of both weapons and ideas. I vouch that Mistress aims to both please and teach in equal measure, in either case, for sure her aim is accurate.

Mr. B

Mistress Mia is not the typical modern professional dominatrix. This mistress reminds one of the days when it was the norm to have a governess in the house. True, a governess was expected to administer chastisement in a matter of fact manner on a regular basis. But intertwined was the responsibility to tune a young man's mind as to the correct way to appreciate the male-female power dynamic in all its forms and, ideally, at all times with all ladies. As a client, or rather as a gentleman caller, one must learn rather quickly to bend not only the body but more importantly the mind. Mistress Mia is not one to be shaped significantly by you, to your peculiar needs. If one is to seek monthly guidance from Mistress Mia, then please put aside primitive ideas as to what you think you want from a dominatrix. Let Mistress Mia educate you, in matters of etiquette, correctness, attention to detail, and yes submission. You will most likely leave the session with not only a sore posterior resulting from a traditional lashing but also a sore mind still processing the equal waves of pleasure and pain from multiple clinical tongue lashings. The bottom line, so to speak, is that you, like me, will be back for more.

Subbie

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